Breaks. Not breaks as in breaks from school, although I must say those are amazing breaks. But I'm talking about
relationship breaks. They don't feel good. Sometimes they are for the better or worse. But at the moment where it comes up, both people are hoping its for the better. Sometimes both people agree on it, sometimes only one. It's hard being the one who doesn't want to go on a break, but what can you do? Scream and scream and scream until the other person changes their mind? I highly doubt that is the best way to deal with it. Sometimes it's best to let the other person have what they want, no matter the pain that you are left with. It's hard to know what to do when your on a break because really, if your the one who didn't want it, your most likely going to end up going into some sort of phase. Then curiosity takes a step up to bat. Your stuck wondering how long it's going to last... For some lucky couples, a matter of hours. For some, days. But in reality, breaks can also last weeks, or months. Then curiosity #2 steps up... What the hell do you do while you wait for it to end - all the while feeling like a lost soul? One things for sure on my behalf, I'm sure as hell not stepping out to an all age club, or going to go all girl on myself and give myself a full makeover. For all those people out there who have had to go through a relationship break, I feel for you because it's hard.
My advice to all those out there on breaks, hope for the best. Sometime's hope is all you've got, so don't give up on it, hold on as long as you can.
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