In the average teenagers life, there are a lot of complicated situations. There's family issues, friend issues, and relationship issues. Just about every teen goes through these situations, including me. Tonight, while on the phone with one of my best girls, I'm realizing a lot. Evey family is different, but every family is also dis-functional in their own ways. Friends. High school changes friendships like crazy and bring out the true self in a person. High school helps just about everyone realize what they want in a friend, and who a persons real friends are. Many friends come and go, but the best ones come and stay. I had a group of friends who I was close with for a couple of years, and one certain individual for several more years on top of that couple, but high school surely began to change each of them, and as of the other night, I had lost all respect with them. I realize that they were never really the true friends I needed in my life, so I figured why should I waste my time to try and continue being friends with them when all I really am to them is a joke? I don't need that in my life, but I'm not to sure if 'all' the friendships with the people in that group is over. Who knows what the future holds. As for relationships, these things take life to a whole new level for many teenage girls. I'm currently one of those love sick girls and I'm also currently, uh, confused, with my relationship. One thing that is very important in a relationship is TRUST. If the trust isn't completely there, the relationship gets strained. Lack of trust is never good, believe me. Suddenly your boyfriend talks to another girl and your freaking out because you can't help but wonder if anything is going on. After all the wondering going on comes the arguments and fights, and thats never good either. Then when your in that argument or fight, your mad which leads you to become upset because you feel as if your partner doesn't want to be with you anymore, which in turn leads you to think something is going on without you knowing, whichhhhh once again in turn leads you to the whole trust issue; you have little trust and so you begin to think something really is going on.
I could go on and on, but I figure this is enough ranting for tonight. My advice, sometimes it's easier just to slip by. Interpret it any way you want, the outcome may very.
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