So many people make so many slip ups everyday, but most of those slip ups don't really mean anything. Just small and pointless. But then there's the slip ups that can be avoided, if only there was some thinking involved. In one day, there have been 2 slip ups directed towards me, and not just little joking ones, but ones that can actually hurt a little bit. The first was joking around with a family member and then I got compared to or called a 'skank', which actually hurt. I took it lightly knowing that they never intended to say that, I knew it just came in the moment and that as soon as they said it, they wanted to take it back. The second time was more hurtful, and could have been avoided way easier than the first. It could have been thought out more because it wasn't something the was happening instantly. Many people don't think when they should, and it results in other people getting hurt. If you don't want someone you care about to get hurt, then think first, then act.
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It's summer. That's the time of year when you don't really want any wet weather because you would like to spend all the time in the world outside (when it feels like 28 degrees, not 35 degrees). When it rains, the sky is crying. But you know what makes
me cry, on the inside? When it's the middle of summer - mk, scratch that. When there's
TWO weeks of summer left, and it's raining, and it is freezing like a mother effer. I had to wear PANTS today... And no, I'm not talking about pajama pants, or whatever. I'm talking blue jeans. The kind of blue jeans that if you wear on a day when it is 20 degrees, your legs boil and melt. So, pretty much if you wake up on a day when there's about two weeks left of summer, and its raining, AND its cold, and you have absolutely no idea what to wear, then here's my advice for you, you poor fella - put pants on, it's a good idea.
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I hate that feeling when your craving a food, but you don't quite know what food it is that your craving. I think just about everyone goes through this
crave phase, but the question is, how do you get over it? First things first, go raid through your kitchen and see if anything catches your eye. If you're like me,
nothing will. Now, uh, how would you put it... Second things second? Makes sense. Anyways, go on the internet and search for that
treat or
snack that always makes you feel good. Consider that your -guilty pleasure goal. Now here's the big step, especially if you don't have good patience... Cook it or bake it. If you don't know if you have enough patience, simply do what I'm about to tell you. Tell yourself this, and if it doesn't really work the first time, repeat it. Again, and again... Anddd again.
"It's so worth it. When it's done cooking/baking, it will taste so good - if I did it right." That will encourage you to do it, and thus, when it's ready, your craving will hopefully be gone... Now, if your craving isn't in your kitchen, and you can't cook or bake it, then I hope you have money. Go out and buy whatever it is that you crave!
So here's my advice for all of you craving something to eat: go for it! just don't go overboard ;) You know what I mean by going overboard, don't eat too much of it too fast (especially if it's junk food), I don't think you want a stomach ache!
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Breaks. Not breaks as in breaks from school, although I must say those are amazing breaks. But I'm talking about
relationship breaks. They don't feel good. Sometimes they are for the better or worse. But at the moment where it comes up, both people are hoping its for the better. Sometimes both people agree on it, sometimes only one. It's hard being the one who doesn't want to go on a break, but what can you do? Scream and scream and scream until the other person changes their mind? I highly doubt that is the best way to deal with it. Sometimes it's best to let the other person have what they want, no matter the pain that you are left with. It's hard to know what to do when your on a break because really, if your the one who didn't want it, your most likely going to end up going into some sort of phase. Then curiosity takes a step up to bat. Your stuck wondering how long it's going to last... For some lucky couples, a matter of hours. For some, days. But in reality, breaks can also last weeks, or months. Then curiosity #2 steps up... What the hell do you do while you wait for it to end - all the while feeling like a lost soul? One things for sure on my behalf, I'm sure as hell not stepping out to an all age club, or going to go all girl on myself and give myself a full makeover. For all those people out there who have had to go through a relationship break, I feel for you because it's hard.
My advice to all those out there on breaks, hope for the best. Sometime's hope is all you've got, so don't give up on it, hold on as long as you can.
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Sixteen(16). The usual age where it is legal for teenagers to begin driving. For most teens, as soon as they turn
16, the race to get their first level of their drivers license begins. Some people go right when they turn 16, others just wait around because it's not that big of a deal in their eyes. For some lucky people, they achieve their learners permit on the first try. When some people fail the first time, they still have some initiative to continue trying. But when they fail the test again, their thoughts begin to change. Some people keep going for it, and others start to not care. I was one of those people who didn't care anymore, but then when my dad was on holidays, he took me, AND I got my License! Now I just want to drive everywhere. So my advice for new drivers: Look out for that car!
And advice for any other drivers: Look out for that car! - These young drivers can get crazy ;)
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In the average teenagers life, there are a lot of complicated situations. There's family issues, friend issues, and relationship issues. Just about every teen goes through these situations, including me. Tonight, while on the phone with one of my best girls, I'm realizing a lot. Evey family is different, but every family is also dis-functional in their own ways. Friends. High school changes friendships like crazy and bring out the true self in a person. High school helps just about everyone realize what they want in a friend, and who a persons real friends are. Many friends come and go, but the best ones come and stay. I had a group of friends who I was close with for a couple of years, and one certain individual for several more years on top of that couple, but high school surely began to change each of them, and as of the other night, I had lost all respect with them. I realize that they were never really the true friends I needed in my life, so I figured why should I waste my time to try and continue being friends with them when all I really am to them is a joke? I don't need that in my life, but I'm not to sure if 'all' the friendships with the people in that group is over. Who knows what the future holds. As for relationships, these things take life to a whole new level for many teenage girls. I'm currently one of those love sick girls and I'm also currently, uh, confused, with my relationship. One thing that is very important in a relationship is TRUST. If the trust isn't completely there, the relationship gets strained. Lack of trust is never good, believe me. Suddenly your boyfriend talks to another girl and your freaking out because you can't help but wonder if anything is going on. After all the wondering going on comes the arguments and fights, and thats never good either. Then when your in that argument or fight, your mad which leads you to become upset because you feel as if your partner doesn't want to be with you anymore, which in turn leads you to think something is going on without you knowing, whichhhhh once again in turn leads you to the whole trust issue; you have little trust and so you begin to think something really is going on.
I could go on and on, but I figure this is enough ranting for tonight. My advice, sometimes it's easier just to slip by. Interpret it any way you want, the outcome may very.
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